Listen To Me, Please!

“Listen to me, please!” That’s what millions of donors will be saying this year.  I was reminded of this important topic when I had a chance meeting last week with the wife of a friend. She proceeded to launch into a five-minute tirade on how she and her husband have...

How to Grow Your Major Gift Program Without Hunting for New Donors

Almost every day I run into development directors and MGOs who are lamenting the fact that they don’t have enough major gift donors.  So, they start coming up with elaborate schemes to attract new ones.  They throw parties, strong-arm board members, try to poach...

Handling Fear of Rejection in Major Gifts

One of my ongoing fears that sticks to me in a most disturbing way is the fear of rejection.  Both Jeff and my wife will tell you that this one area is the thing that haunts me in every relationship I have, whether personal or professional.  I even make up stories in...