Prioritize Your Life: #2 of Five Resolutions for an Outstanding New Year

How many times during the day do you find yourself in the middle of something you and stop and say, “Why am I doing this?”  Or, as you look back over the last month or last year, how many things did you do that you’re still scratching your head over? I know there have...

Reflecting on 2012 — How did YOU do on those Resolutions?

Wow, can you believe 2012 is about to come to a close? I can’t. This year has just flown by. Naturally, at this point in December, I begin to think about all that has happened this past year and then I remembered that exactly a year ago I wrote the “Six New Year’s...

Getting The Heart Along With The Cash

“I hate the giving of the hand unless the whole man accompanies it.” Ralph Waldo Emerson Several posts ago I told you that the giving and getting of gifts is a difficult thing for me. Here’s why. I was sent off to a boarding school in another country when I was six...

No Donor Pays For Overhead!

There is something about overhead that is so toxic to major gift officers that they literally run away from it every time it gets close to them. And it’s not only MGOs that are repulsed by the topic.  Managers and leaders feel pretty squeamish about it too.  You bring...

Do You HAVE needs or do you MEET needs?

There is not a non-profit on the face of the earth that has a need.  Not one. Think about it.  What need does a non-profit have? Well, you could argue that a non-profit needs money, talent, publicity, gifts in kind, etc. But why does it need these things?  To get it’s...